Evenhand

About this app

What Evenhand does

One sibling drives Mom to every appointment, pays the pharmacy, and lies awake managing it all. The others say they had no idea. Evenhand ends that argument by quietly keeping score of who actually does the eldercare. Caring for an aging parent is rarely split evenly. The closest child, often a daughter, ends up the default caregiver while brothers and sisters drift to the edges. Resentment grows not because anyone is selfish, but because the work is invisible. Hours on hold with Medicare, a 90-minute round trip to the clinic, a refill paid out of pocket, the 2 a.m. worry, none of it shows up anywhere. Evenhand makes it show up. It is Splitwise for the sandwich generation: a private contribution ledger for siblings sharing the care of a parent. Log a contribution in a few taps. Pick the family member, choose a type, time spent, miles driven, money paid, or mental-load tasks like coordinating, researching, and worrying, and add an optional note. The fairness dashboard converts everything into a single picture: who has carried what this month, this quarter, and all-time. When the numbers feel lopsided, Settle Up suggests a money or hours figure to even things out, and the Rebalancing Roster proposes a rotation so the next month lands more fairly. Bring it to the family meeting and replace a tense guess with a calm, shared fact. The mental-load category is where Evenhand goes further than any expense splitter. Caregiving is not only drives and dollars. It is the sibling who remembers the cardiology follow-up, who fights the insurance denial, who researches assisted-living costs at midnight, who carries the constant low hum of worry. Evenhand lets you log those tasks too, so the work that never produced a receipt finally counts. Over a few weeks the dashboard tells a story that words could not, and the imbalance becomes impossible to dismiss. Evenhand is built for privacy first. There is no account to create and no server to trust. Everything lives on your iPhone or iPad, so the details of your family's caregiving stay between you. There are no ads, no trackers, and no analytics watching how you use it. Export a clean PDF summary when you need to show a sibling, an attorney, a financial advisor, or yourself that the load needs to change, and the rest stays sealed on your device. Use it solo to understand your own contribution, or share the picture with the whole family before the next hard conversation. The Rebalancing Roster turns that conversation into a plan, naming who takes which weeks so the next month does not default back to one exhausted person. Settle Up puts a fair, honest number on what would even things out, whether in shared expenses or traded hours. This is not a medical app and it does not track your parent's pills or vitals, plenty of tools already do that. Evenhand tracks the family doing the caring, and the fairness between them. • Log hours, drives, dollars, and mental-load tasks per sibling • Fairness dashboard by month, quarter, and all-time • Settle Up suggests a fair money or hours rebalance • Rebalancing Roster proposes a fair care rotation • Add unlimited family members and care recipients • Per-person and per-category breakdowns with totals • Export a clean PDF summary for family meetings • Fully offline, no account, no subscription, no ads • All data stays on your device, always